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ELOQUII and the perfect LBD:

Let’s talk for a sec about something that doesn’t get talked enough in the fashion blog community, and in the plus fashion community in general – the inherent classist aspect to plus fashion blogging (less so with straight-sized fashion due to the availability of dirt-cheap straight sized clothing and even cheaper thrift opportunities). But you can’t run a fashion blog if you can’t afford to buy…fashion. Which is the problem I’ve been struggling with lately, despite being lucky that I’ve had money in the past to buy enough clothing so I can mostly pull it off despite not having received a paycheck since July, and before May not having received a paycheck since 2015. I’m just now acknowledging to myself that I’m disabled and starting the application process, but the truth is, I’ve been disabled for two years. I have a neurological disorder and C-PTSD, and no matter how much I love my work and try try try to convince myself I’m still capable of holding down a full time job – especially in an agency environment, where “full time” often means 70 hours a week – I just can’t. Not with narcolepsy symptoms causing me to fall asleep at my desk, or worse, on my commute to work, and not after 10 days getting a sum total of 2 hours sleep. All this is a lead in to the fact that I’ve drooled over ELOQUII clothing for years, but have never been able to afford anything until this past week, and I want to be honest about that, because I’m sure I’m not alone in this struggle. But ELOQUII was having some insane sale from like 2AM until 9AM on a day where I was dealing with another stretch of chronic insomnia…and it would have been criminal not to buy the dresses on sale from $175+ to $29 dollars, especially since that’s the only way in which insomnia has ever made my life better. So I went for it. And of course, being a person who has only a glancing relationship with the real world, instead of buying everyday wearable clothing, I bought two fancy party dresses, and a metallic gold skirt. You get to a point in life where you have to just be like “fuck it”, and find your joy where you can. And let me tell you, this vintage-flavored LBD is a JOY. And TBH although it seems fancy at first glance, it’s minimalist enough to be wearable if you dress it down with a day jacket or a cardigan! I don’t know why I can’t pose like a human being. It’s a good thing I’m such a fox.

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The complete guide to styling a plus size ’60s mod wardrobe

I have a long history with being infatuated with mod fashion. At 17 I fake-ID’d my way into an infamous Boston dance party called Start! (exclamation point included), which spun a mix of electroclash, britpop, and post-punk dance tunes and attracted a crowd of scene kids of that particular early 2000’s mod revivalist fashion which favored white belts and skinny black pants and spock hairdo’s of matte black. I fell in love instantly. To me, that style was the apex of pure cool of the type that I used to long for and strive towards (back when I thought being cool was the most important thing in the world). I fell in with this crowd in Boston and then inwhe college in the east Village of NYC, where I attended the Tisch School of the Arts, but mostly spent my time partying in delirious excitement with the most attractive, fashionable set of people I thought humanly possible. Mod fashion, updated a little with an eye on the contemporary styles, was a must back in those days, and my wardrobe consisted almost entirely of black and white, stripes, hints of red, and retro-styled garments. (Check out a little nostalgic recap here.) I may have grown out of my party days and my obsession with being cool, being guest-listed at the most exclusive dance parties in town, and knowing all the right people in all the right circles, but my love of mod fashion has never wavered, though it’s been subsequently supplemented, and the black has faded from my hair and been replaced with rose gold, teal blue, and pastel violet. But unfortunately mod style clothing has always been a challenge to find for my plus sized body, so here are my tips and tricks to replicate this style for my gang of fashion-conscious, fat and fabulous femme babes. Swingin’ 60s Mod fashion grew into popularity in 1960’s London, inspired by designers such as Mary Quant, Halston, Biba, and Fred Perry. The style relied on simple, classic pieces, and used its limited color power, mix of patterns, A-Line silhouette, and focus on specific little style flourishes such as collar and sleeve details to elevate its style from being too simplistic and basic. It took inspiration from menswear and modified those styles to create a universally feminine, stylish appeal, and favored shift dresses and separates which created a signature a-line silhouette. The mod style which I personally prefer veered away from the psychedelic exuberance of certain 60s styles, and instead limited its color palette to navy, red shades, cream, white, black, and neutrals, and patterns like plaids, stripes, and polka-dots. My favorite mod outfits are simple a-line shift dresses paired with white or navy hose or knee-socks and strappy flats or knee-high boots in white or neutral brown. Mod outerwear has a special place in my heart, pea-coats and double-breasted overcoats in the same a-line shape as the dresses worn underneath. Pictures speak louder than words. You can get a good idea of mod style by looking at street fashion images from London in the 60s. Everyone seems so effortlessly chic and intimidatingly cool. The difficulty with finding mod pieces in plus size stores is that the a-line shape and lack of waist definition of a shift dress is often considered ‘unflattering’ on bigger figures, and dresses tend to be fit-and-flare or wrap shapes to create more of an hourglass shape. I call bullshit on that. And as your loving and thoughtful Style Mama, I’ve searched my fav plus size retailers and put together some pieces which will fit well into a mod wardrobe, so that you can look as cool and stylish as any bird on Carnaby Street. And I posed for a pic in all my mod finest for a little inspiration. (Cigarette optional. Look of existential ennui essential.) Plus sized Mod Dresses From ELOQUII:           Try to look for shift, trapeze, and swing dresses to create that classic mod silhouette. Keep an eye out for classic, simple pieces, with a little flair added from contrast collars, retro-style bowtie necklines, and fabrics in nautical stripes, tartan plaids, and sweet mini polka-dots. Double breasted details reminiscent of military pea-coats are also classic mod styling. From ASOS Curve:           Remember, fashion rules are meant to be broken. Make this style your own by updating it to include fall florals, or more splashes of color, or updated hemlines. Add a little of yourself back into it! Plus Size Mod Tops Separates are easy to style – match A-Line skirts or menswear-fitted trousers with vintage-inspired woven blouses or striped knit tees to create a timeless style that signals effortless cool. Pair basic pieces you can find for relatively cheap at any store with an extended size range with select styles of eye-catching structure and quality.                         The thing to remember with mod fashion as with all fashions which are based in simplicity – be mindful that ‘simple’ doesn’t become ‘boring’, as it can so easily when played too safe. A black and white striped shirt is always a good choice when paired with separates which are chosen with a retro 60s look in mind, but if you throw it over jean shorts and adidas, the look kind of falls apart. The basic rules of the style are there for you to embellish and accent with your own personal choices and eye for style. Don’t feel too bogged down by what I’m showing you here. Take the bare bones and flesh them out on your own! As for Plus Size Mod Bottoms Tailored menswear fit trousers, a-line skirts in solid colors or neutral prints, and miniskirts are what you’re looking for. Pair a fancier blouse with a toned-down skirt, or a simple sweater with a plaid flared midi skirt. And layer on the opaque pantyhose. Especially in white!               PHEW. Who else needs their electrolytes replenished? I really hope this inspires some of you, my darling little fashion ducklings, because I really do adore the style, and I’ve felt left out of much of the options to wear this style ever since I fell in love with it. But that no longer has to be the case… Read More The complete guide to styling a plus size ’60s mod wardrobe